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Who has experienced this?
Untitled When I tried to explain my pain, You told me I was “overly emotional” and “abnormal.” When I tried to explain and help you understand how I felt, You called me “dramatic.” When I reacted to your anger and volatility, You said I made you do it with “my nervous energy.” When I wanted you to know how you affected me, You said you didn’t want to talk about it. When…
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Is it just me who is divorced and in their early sixties and doesn’t want to live with a man anymore, but, at the same time fears being alone forever?
I love my solitude. Not having to talk to someone all day or share every detail of my life all the time. But, I’d also like a relationship that is casual and exclusive. Most men seem to want so much attention and don’t like living alone.
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Is it just me who feels like I am holding onto so much love and tenderness with no one to pour it into and still quietly believes in a fairytale kind of love?
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Is it just me, or is one of the hardest parts of marriage realizing that someone can genuinely love you and still not know—or choose—how to participate in the kind of relationship you need?
I’m in a long-term marriage with a man I genuinely believe is a good man, a good father, and someone who loves me. That’s what makes this so confusing.There isn’t one giant thing I can point to. It’s the accumulation of ordinary moments.Asking to create more structure around the kids, meals, finances, the house. Wanting to study Scripture together. Asking for intentional…
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Is it just me, or does anyone else want love and to find their person but also at the same time want to be alone?
I love my life as it is and worry that having a man in my life might derail my life.
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Is it just me who tries to plan fun activities with their husband, only to be shut down?
He’ll say the idea is dumb or that he doesn’t know the singer, so he doesn’t want to go. It makes me feel like the things I’m excited about don’t matter.
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Is it just me who feels desperate thinking they may never find the love of their life? I feel hopeless, sad and lonely.
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Is it just me, or do I actually want to be engaged? Or am I just upset because everyone around me is married, engaged or has children?
How do I know whether it’s truly the next step I want?
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Is it just me, or is my boyfriend really not the one for me? Should I listen to everyone around me?
Am I defending the relationship because I truly believe he is my person, or because I’m afraid of starting again?
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Is it just me who wishes more people talked about the quality of sex after many years of marriage? Not the quantity, but the quality.